Getting into a Relationship-Things You Should Know About Your Potential Lover

It would make no sense if you go into a relationship with somebody you know nothing about. Some people go into relationships without taking time to really know their potential lovers. This mistake should be avoided.
Here some thing s you should know about your potential lover.

• Is your Potential Lover Controlling or possessive? Some people are over-protective and feels you are obliged to tell them everything you do. Possessive behavior includes: Texting or calling you a lot to find out where you are. Demanding that you spend a lot of time with them. Saying they love you quickly in a relationship, and then asking you if you feel the same way. Some men grow out of it, some stay like that their whole lives. A lot of guys don't realize they are being possessive, so maybe talk to him and let him know.
• How caring is your potential lover? Does he or she takes matters relating to you serious? Has that person done anything for you without you begging for it? Please note this.
• Is your potential lover selfish? A man who talks about himself always, picking faults of the women always is not considerate towards her and cares less about her feelings. Same applies to women. Such a person who wants everything designed to suit him or her, is selfish.
• How open is your potential lover to you? Is there a healthy communication between  both of you or a wide gap? Does your potential lover share his or her personal life with you, without you asking? Not knowing this may cause problems in your relationship, because if there is no communication between the two of you, you will find it hard getting along with each other.
• Does he compare you with other women? When a man compares you with other women, the truth there is that he is not sure if he really wants to get into a relationship with you and when you get into the relationship, he might possibly dump you.
• Consider whether you're both traveling along the same pathway in life. Are you heading in the same direction? Do you share common interests and values?
• How sincere is he? Does he keeps to his words? Does your potential lover tell the truth regardless of what it might cost him? If he does not keep to his words and lies very often, then he can not be trusted.
• Is your potential lover positive-minded? Does your potential lover say positive things to you? Does he think you've got something to offer? If he is not positive about you, please don't get into that relationship.
• Is your potential lover ready for a long-term relationship? If you are planning to get into a long-term relationship and your potential lover wants a short one, then you might end up being heart-broken.
• How often does he hang-out? If you like hanging out and he does not like hanging out, it might cause problems. And if you don't like hanging out and your potential lover is a party freak  then you are in for a roller-coaster relationship.
• Is your potential lover a listener? Does he take ideas from you? If he does not take ideas from people or does not listen to other people`s suggestions, then it would be hard for you to change any thing you don`t like about him.
• Evaluate how he treats you in private and in public. Does he brag about you to others? Does he seem proud to be with you, or does he avoid being seen with you in public places? Does he stick around when you're having a bad day, or does he disappear when you need him the most?
• You should also know the things your potential lover likes. His favourite color, his best food, his favourite book and movie, the kind of music he likes listening to and other things you may think its irrelevant. Little things matters so just go ahead and ask him.
• Now is important to know your potential lover`s birthday. A friend of mine asked his girlfriend his birthday and she said she does not know. Though he had not told her before because she had not asked, he did not find it funny. So go ahead and asked him or her.

Knowing these would help you in choosing who becomes your partner. Though a relationship is a learning process but you should know these basics during your dating period before you get into a serious relationship with anybody.

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