How to Attract Good Single Men

Most women give excuses that "the good men have all been taken, remaining the bad ones." This is as a result of them not attracting good men to themselves. It is true that women are naturally attracted to single men who will later break their hearts. But the truth remains that no man walks into your life without your initial acceptance. It doesn't make any good relationship if he is not the good type.  The good single men are not readily attracted to women. So here are some tips on how to attract good men to yourself:


COMMUNICATION: The easiest way to make him notice you, is to say hello or hi to him whenever you see him around. Most women would get the man`s number to talk to him, but some good men do not usually like that kind of first move. Another way is to ask him to help you out where you think he can be of help. With these you can get more time to talk with him. Your communication with him should be decent. Don't give him the impression you are asking him out. Just make him like you with the things you say to him. Say wise things while talking to him. Men likes intelligent women.

GET TO KNOW HIM: Know what kind of a girl he likes, what moves him in a girl and his likes and dislikes. Do some adjustments to fit into what he fancies. Maybe, if he notices those traits in you, he may come asking you out.

BE YOURSELF: This is where women commit blunders. Women seem not to have control over the attraction. Some women behave in awkward manners, thereby giving a wrong impression of themselves to men. It would be very helpful to you if you just be yourself I mean your natural self. This would also help the man in knowing the kind of person you are.

BE INTERESTING: Have an interesting personality. If a am man does not find you interesting, then he would not get attracted to you. Make yourself a stand-out from the crowd. Exude confidence and charm, coupled with intelligence and smiles. This could make you more interesting.

BEAUTY: In every man's heart there is a secret nerve that answers to the vibrations of beauty. Beauty they say is the promise of happiness. So make yourself beautiful. Do your best to look good and attractive.

SMILE: “Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful.” A smile is a language that even a baby understands. A smile they say confuses an approaching frown. When you wear smiles, you look welcoming, you attract good people to yourself. No man wants to live with a woman that does not wear smiles. "A friendly look, a kindly smile, one good act, and life’s worthwhile"


Apply these few tips today and you`ll see want difference it would make. Just know that there are good men out there who are looking for good women.

Getting into a Relationship-Things You Should Know About Your Potential Lover

It would make no sense if you go into a relationship with somebody you know nothing about. Some people go into relationships without taking time to really know their potential lovers. This mistake should be avoided.
Here some thing s you should know about your potential lover.

• Is your Potential Lover Controlling or possessive? Some people are over-protective and feels you are obliged to tell them everything you do. Possessive behavior includes: Texting or calling you a lot to find out where you are. Demanding that you spend a lot of time with them. Saying they love you quickly in a relationship, and then asking you if you feel the same way. Some men grow out of it, some stay like that their whole lives. A lot of guys don't realize they are being possessive, so maybe talk to him and let him know.
• How caring is your potential lover? Does he or she takes matters relating to you serious? Has that person done anything for you without you begging for it? Please note this.
• Is your potential lover selfish? A man who talks about himself always, picking faults of the women always is not considerate towards her and cares less about her feelings. Same applies to women. Such a person who wants everything designed to suit him or her, is selfish.
• How open is your potential lover to you? Is there a healthy communication between  both of you or a wide gap? Does your potential lover share his or her personal life with you, without you asking? Not knowing this may cause problems in your relationship, because if there is no communication between the two of you, you will find it hard getting along with each other.
• Does he compare you with other women? When a man compares you with other women, the truth there is that he is not sure if he really wants to get into a relationship with you and when you get into the relationship, he might possibly dump you.
• Consider whether you're both traveling along the same pathway in life. Are you heading in the same direction? Do you share common interests and values?
• How sincere is he? Does he keeps to his words? Does your potential lover tell the truth regardless of what it might cost him? If he does not keep to his words and lies very often, then he can not be trusted.
• Is your potential lover positive-minded? Does your potential lover say positive things to you? Does he think you've got something to offer? If he is not positive about you, please don't get into that relationship.
• Is your potential lover ready for a long-term relationship? If you are planning to get into a long-term relationship and your potential lover wants a short one, then you might end up being heart-broken.
• How often does he hang-out? If you like hanging out and he does not like hanging out, it might cause problems. And if you don't like hanging out and your potential lover is a party freak  then you are in for a roller-coaster relationship.
• Is your potential lover a listener? Does he take ideas from you? If he does not take ideas from people or does not listen to other people`s suggestions, then it would be hard for you to change any thing you don`t like about him.
• Evaluate how he treats you in private and in public. Does he brag about you to others? Does he seem proud to be with you, or does he avoid being seen with you in public places? Does he stick around when you're having a bad day, or does he disappear when you need him the most?
• You should also know the things your potential lover likes. His favourite color, his best food, his favourite book and movie, the kind of music he likes listening to and other things you may think its irrelevant. Little things matters so just go ahead and ask him.
• Now is important to know your potential lover`s birthday. A friend of mine asked his girlfriend his birthday and she said she does not know. Though he had not told her before because she had not asked, he did not find it funny. So go ahead and asked him or her.

Knowing these would help you in choosing who becomes your partner. Though a relationship is a learning process but you should know these basics during your dating period before you get into a serious relationship with anybody.

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Getting into a Relationship-Ten Things You Should Know About Yourself

We all want to know who others are. We want to know every thing about others. But do you really know yourself? Some claim that nobody has understood them yet, but do they understand themselves? So easily we say we know this or that person, taking it for granted sometimes that they have opened up to you. But what about you? Have you opened up to yourself?
Before you get into a relationship, you must know yourself. Before you talk about knowing who you want to get into a relationship with, it is beneficial you know somethings about yourself. When you do this, then you would be able to define yourself and in-turn know the kind of persons you want.
So what are the important things you should know about yourself?

1. You should know if you are the caring type. Most partners would want you to be very caring to them and if you are not caring, it could cause your relationship to be a short one.
2. You should know if you are selfish and try to change if you are. Most partners do not know how to share. Some persons can live with them, while some others can not live with people like this. So knowing this about yourself would help in deciding on who you want to get involved with.
3. Are you open-minded? You should know if you are open. If you share things your thoughts with friends. Your potential partner might be the type that would want to know everything.
4. Are you responsible? If you are the the type that hangs out in bars, parties frequently, smokes and stays out late, some persons might not want get involved with you. So you should know if you would have to change.
5. You should know what makes you get angry. Some people have attitudes that are annoying to some, while to others these same attitudes are enjoyable. So you should know this about yourself so you don`t get into the wrong hands.
6. Money Money Money. Are you a cash loving person? As you may know, not everybody wants to spend their money. Some just want to save it forever.
7. What do you really want from the relationship? You`ll have to know this. You must determine if you want to go into a long-term relationship or a short one. You should also know if you are getting into a relationship because of what you have to gain. Knowing what you want would also help you in decision making.
8. Are you romantic? Some people can not cope with partners that are not romantic while some can`t. Some are ready to teach their partners to be romantic while some just want a ready-made romantic partner.
9. What do you truly like? Some of  us think we like a thing while in the actual sense, we do not like that thing. We like this thing when we are with this group of people and when we are with another group, we hate it. So I recommend Self-exploration.
10. Are you ready to go into a relationship? Don`t go into a relationship when you are not ready. The out-come might be devastating.

These ten are not the only things you have know about yourself but you have to know these ones. This would be very helpful in choosing a love partners.