Love or Lust

Most people easily get deceived by their boyfriends that they are truly in love them. We sometimes find it hard to determine whether it is true love or lust that our boyfriends have for us or that we have for our girlfriends.
So here are some tips on how you can know if it is Love or Lust that your Boyfriend has for you or that you have for her.

It’s Lust if

• You start your conversations by looking at her cleavage and constantly think about what it would be like to rip off her clothes and go at it.
• You’re cant stop seeing her ****.
• You make a face when she calls.
• You are never interested in just talking to her or being with her. You would happily avoid her for days, and only make an attempt to meet her when you start feeling horny again.
• You keep fantasising about other women.
• Even when you are with her you can’t keep your mind (and your eyes) off the other hotties around you.
• The moment you have had sex with her you start feeling the irrepressible urge to leave. No kissing, no cuddling and sleeping over; just “I gotta go.”
• She does not seem as attractive as she use to.

Its Love if

• You have amazing conversations
• You just love interacting with her. The conversations that two of you have leave you stimulated and happy and the hours pass like minutes. You love listening to her talk and the chemistry between the two of you is amazing.
• You always find her beautiful
• You feel amazing chemistry with her
• Even if she is dressed in a modest salwar that covers her from top to bottom or you catch her without any makeup on she still looks good enough to eat.
• You want be with her always
• Even when there is absolutely no chance of having sex with her, you still love the idea of hanging out with her.
• You are willing to wait for sex.
• Even if she tells you that sex will have to wait till marriage, you are still interested in her.
• You are suddenly more romantic.
• You are more conscious of your appearance.
• All of a sudden you develop a taste for mushy romantic songs and like to think about her while listening to them. You send her flowers and write romantic letters (emails or sms’s) and set up romantic evenings at home.
• You are willing to change for her, be a better man.
• For her you are more than willing give up smoking for good, or put in more hours at work to get that promotion that has eluded you till now.
• Her presence makes you happy, and you would do anything to make her happier.

Lust is short lived. So unless its love you will soon grow tired of being with your present girlfriend and will give her up the second someone better comes along. Love, on the other hand, is long term. Even though at times they masquerade as each other, you would always be able to tell the difference.

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Ways to Make a Girl Smile

There are many ways a man can make a girl/woman smile. Most guys find it hard making their girlfriends or even wives smile. A smile can be given and received very easily. It just takes some simple steps and actions.

When you make your girlfriend or wife smile, she will always want to be with you and she will love you more. She`ll see you as a source of joy and happiness and that's what every woman wants. A man who will make her happy; a man who will make her Smile.

So here are some simple ways to make her smile:

Tell her she is BEAUTIFUL.

Telling a girl she is beautiful is the easiest way to make her smile. Some would tell you to stop flattering her. But man, deep inside her she is feeling very happy about it and that would definitely make her smile.

Look her in the eyes an SMILE

When you look her in the eyes passionately and smile, she'll join you and smile. Smiling when looking at her would just lead her into smiling.

Touch her hair gently 

If you do this she'll feel relaxed. Touching her in the hair also shows you care. Girls love this.

Introduce her to your friends as your Girlfriend

This would show her you are proud of her, and in the process lead her to smiling.

Call her just to say "hi"

Call her in the middle of the day and tell her you just wanted to say "hi". She'll smile when she hears you say that.

Tell her she is Intelligent

Telling any girl she is intelligent makes her feel happy and keeps her smiling. 

Call her before you go to bed and when you wake up

Calling her in the morning to tell her good morning and  wishing her a nice day makes her feel you care and makes her smile at the same time. Calling her in the night and telling her you want her voice to be the last voice you'll sleep, makes her feel cherished and adored. Hearing these would surely make her smile.

 Smiles to Remember, Frowns to Forget

Sing a love song to her

She'll find it interesting no matter how bad your voice may sound. She will smile  at you. Just sing it from your heart. She will enjoy it.

Make her laugh

Say funny things that would make her laugh. But be careful not to keep repeating your jokes. Just be original.

Appreciate her gifts

Collect whatever present she gives you. Tell her you love every gift or present she gives to you. She will be happy you like her present.

Take her to a eatery

Yes, this would surely make her smile. Make her enjoy every minute of it.

Finally, Show and Tell Her You LOVE Her

Always show her love her. Treat her with respect. Don`t feel shy, go ahead and tell her how much you love her. She will appreciate. And this would surely make her smile.

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What Women Want From Men

You must be wondering what your girlfriend, wife or potential lover wants from you as a partner. You've asked yourself this question severally, but the answer seems not to be coming. You might be a very handsome and attractive guy, but that's not all, women want more than just good looks. So what do women want you'll ask yourself. I will give a few

Women Want To be Cherished
Every woman wants a man who cherishes her. She wants a man that would yearn for her. This gives her a sense of belonging. She wants to be appreciated for what ever she does. She wants a man who can show his appreciation in words and in deeds.

Women want to be Respected
Just as you will want your wife or girlfriend to respect you, that's how she wants to be respected by you. She wants you to talk about her with respect. She is an individual and you must respect that fact. 

Women want a Listening Man
In every relationship, women want that listens to them. She wants you to give her audience. Women do not want men that takes decisions without informing them. 


Women Want Romantic Men
Yes, they want romantic men. Women want men that turn up their romantic desires. No woman wants a man that is dull when it comes to romance. Especially if she is the type that likes it.. She would seek for romance and when you don`t give her, she ends up getting fed up of you.

Women Wants Men That Understands Them
For me what makes relationships work is understanding. If you don`t understand the needs, like, dislikes and moods of your partner, then I don`t think that relationship can work. In a relationship were understanding is missing, there would be a big gap between the partners.   

Women Want Stylish Men 
Women wants men that like looking good. It does not really matter whether if you look good. They just want you to dress well. They want men that  has a unique and good dressing style.

Women Do Not Like Men That Do Not Smell Good
Just like men women do not like men that has bad smells. Women want their man to smell good. Men, usually tend to perspire more than women leaving behind a bad foul that women cannot stand to take.

Women Want Honest Men 
Honesty is one thing that women likes. They want men that are honest. Men that are trustworthy. They like men that tells them the truth regardless of the situation. This would build her trust in you.

 These are just some of the things women want from their man. I would advise you adjust to fit into what she really wants.


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